Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by Hoffa, Mar 25, 2009.
skitch surfaces from out of nowhere! :disbelief
na wasnt even that bad is was NFL and NBA, it was the same signature I have now thanks to Titanico I believe.
My intention was and still is to move on, but I would like to take responsibility for the anal rape comment first.
Me and this other poster from the TOMB joined a TOMB/NFLFury membered private fantasy football league. Since there were no rules for our league, explicit language and girly images were allowed. Well this other poster had just got banned from the TOMB, for repeatedly posting pot and girly pics. He started ranting about getting banned, he then went on to personally attack Yvette and divulged her private info. He then began quoting misinformation about 2 other TOMB members having been wronged by Yvette.
Believing/knowing that the information was false, I contacted those 2 members directly, who confirmed that the information was false. They also expressed that they had moved on and wished to be left out of the drama. I went back to our FF board to quit the league(exercising free choice to remove myself from the problem), and confronted him on using misinformation to justify his own poor behavior, and raked him over the coals for it. At the end of my rant I wrote:
".....By the way please inform whom ever leaked Yvette's business to you, that I'd like to anal rape them with their cowardice too.
They know where to find me."
That comment and the rant it was from are personal regrets of mine. I was very angry, and handled it poorly. I reacted in a very cutting manner. I could've made my points without calling him names. The problem was, at that moment, I didn't want to. I wanted to tell him to go screw himself, so I did. I'm not proud of my behavior, it isn't the kind of person I want to be or raise my kids to be.
Hence my sig at the TOMB:
"Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place,
but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment." -Benjamin Franklin
I put that sig there, so other members could hold me to it, should I fail to do so myself.
All I can do is apologize to anyone for mistakes I made, and offer my assurances to the members of goTitans that I am committed to not repeating my past mistakes here or anywhere else.
Agreed. I don't feel a need to comment further on the past. If someone would like a response to something concerning these issues, feel free to PM me. But I would prefer to never discuss it again. That goes for TOMB discussions in general. I don't desire to continually throw the TOMB up in goTitans face. They have been gracious enough to make room for for us, I'd prefer us former TOMBers be gracious enough to shut up about the TOMB and it's bad times and also it's good times. It's history for better or worse.
You're right there's not any rules, because some people should know how to act/post without offending people. Out of all your posts only 6 were able to be salvaged.
Tossing out every offensive thing you can think of to test the limits of what you can or can't do wasn't a smart move.
They don't want to have to moderate this new board one bit contrary to what most want to believe.
I nominate Stephenson noob of the week...
I second... lets take it to the floor.
this one time in BAN camp ...
I lurk but haven't been posting.... anywhere actually. Things have been crazy lately.
Also, I changed my PSL's to a different section so now I don't get to run into you at the games. I miss seeing you with your son on the leash.
Good talking to you though.
The statement you made above makes you a big person; one of the reasons I had absolutely no problem with you over there. Your actions and admission of responsibility remind me quite a bit of Titanjeff.
Agreed as well.
Notice that I mentioned no names in talking about this subject.
Just to be clear for everyone else (since I brought it up and you replied to my post)..... the person in your story was NOT me. I didn't want anyone to be confused or mistaken in thinking that was me.
Sorry I brought that subject into the post. I just couldn't take anymore of the self righteous, lumping everyone else into one category thing. (Not your posts.)
Big of you to talk about. You didn't have to.
Time to move on.
Separate names with a comma.